Rigjockey
In Gord we trust!
Mom called me and said the time has come to put Dad in a home. He has dementia and had a few strokes, has progressively got worse.
Mom looked after him for like 2-3 years as this progression started.
She called me crying. Saying she had made the decision she had put off for a long time.
She feels like she has betrayed him and was worried about hurting me.
Hurting me? She has been a saint through all of this.
Not to be callous, but I really don't think he would know the difference.
Mom can visit him anytime and I told her she should have a life, In a good way.
I really miss my Dad. I am not sure what is crueler, To have him taken away suddenly or taken slowly?
The good Lord only gives you what you can handle.
Mom looked after him for like 2-3 years as this progression started.
She called me crying. Saying she had made the decision she had put off for a long time.
She feels like she has betrayed him and was worried about hurting me.
Hurting me? She has been a saint through all of this.
Not to be callous, but I really don't think he would know the difference.
Mom can visit him anytime and I told her she should have a life, In a good way.
I really miss my Dad. I am not sure what is crueler, To have him taken away suddenly or taken slowly?
The good Lord only gives you what you can handle.